To reduce stress in our relationships, we must make relational changes. It’s easy to point the finger at the other person and expect them to change. Trying to fix another person only adds to anxiety. But moving from stress to rest in relationships begins with ME. In most relationship issues, we personally contribute to the problem, so we always begin with looking at our own hearts. We reset our expectations of the relationship. We minimize our egos and put others before ourselves. We seek to grow in empathy toward others. We ask God what He desires to love others well.